Sunday, October 05, 2008

Baruch Ata Adonai . . .

Thank You, God.
Every morning my two-year-old class sings this song. After becoming familiar with this phrase (in the Hebrew and English) we begin thinking of things to for which we could say Thank You.

Here's my list:
  1. The members of the preschool PTO where I teach who chipped in and bought us an extremely generous amount of gift cards for three different local grocery stores
  2. The faculty and staff at DH's school who took up a collection and ended up with an incredible amount of cash to offset all of our medical expenses. It is enough to pay off what we owe to the hospital for July (we're still waiting to hear what we need to pay for September) plus all of the remaining PT and OT co-pays. We're so grateful we have insurance - can't even imagine how much we owe if we didn't - but the co-pays still add up very quickly!
  3. The department that DH works in that gave him a Visa gift card to also help with co-pays.
  4. My amazing cousin who organized donations from my dad's side of the family and ordered groceries from Acme that were delivered to our house last week and pizzas which were delivered yesterday night. She also organized a collection of frozen meals for us which, even though I was so grateful, I begged her to deliver to my other cousin who recently injured both her legs causing her to be off her feet for a while so I could feel like I was helping in some small way.
  5. The huge number of people who made and delivered meals so I could have one less thing to think about. We still have enough meals in the freezer for the next two weeks.
  6. The people who brought over convenience type foods (like Uncrustables, Granola Bars, Juice Boxes, etc.) for me to throw in the kids' lunch boxes each night.
  7. The numerous people who were able to watch the kids on different days and times so I could go to the hospital with DH or so I could go to work and not leave DH in charge of the kids by himself.
  8. My sister and mom who have been searching thrift stores and even sales at various clothing stores in the area to find long pants for my boys, since I have not been able to get out and do that and they had outgrown all pants from last year.
  9. My parents who were able to pay for the first three months of my dues for the boys to attend Religious School.
  10. The incredible Rabbi at my synagogue who was able to work with me to help relieve other financial burdens we have for the year.
  11. The amazing number of people contacted us to tell us about a friend of a friend who had similar symptoms as DH only to discover that it was ______. We have really appreciated all the ideas and theories. For the record, and to relieve all the people who continue to call and offer this diagnosis: it is NOT Lyme Disease. He had three negative blood tests, did not respond to IV antibiotics, AND there was no evidence of Lyme Disease in his spinal tap.
  12. The friends and family who allowed DH and I to make light of this whole scary situation by participating in our betting pool we had going on things like when he would be discharged from the hospital, what the eventual diagnosis would be, if he would relapse yet again, when he would return to work, just to name a few. We know we're sick people, but if you can't laugh, you cry.
  13. The father of one of DH's students who happens to be a landscaper - he came out yesterday with a partner and took care of our lawn.
  14. Our next door neighbors who have mowed our lawn the previous weeks.
  15. The prayers, good wishes, e-mails, phone calls, get well cards, and visits.
  16. DH's health continues to improve every day.

I'm sure there is more to add to this list, but that's all I can think of right now. Don't I have a lot to be thankful for?!

DH worked half days last week while continuing to do PT and OT four times a week. He seems virtually symptom free, though his left arm is still sore from the weakness. Tomorrow he will begin teaching full days PLUS PT and OT. I am quite nervous that this will cause a relapse again (teaching two full days at the beginning of September had caused this latest relapse) but am trying to stay optimistic. To make matters worse, he has developed an abcess on the tooth that was knocked loose last year when he broke up a fight at school, so must see the dentist right after school tomorrow. His whole face is swollen and he's in a lot of pain.

Please continue to pray!


Anjali said...

You all continue to be in my prayers!

MemeGRL said...

Life is a series of miracles, isn't it?
But really, the dentist is a bridge too far. Enough people poking around his head!
May your names, and those of your extended helping family, be written in the Book of Life!

Domestic Goddess said...

Glad to hear things are improving steadily and I pray it continues to do so! Y'all don't need anymore!

RuthWells said...

I'm so glad to hear that matters are improving -- I've been anxiously checking your blog for news! What an incredible outpouring of support from your friends and community. I am feeling pretty chagrined that we weren't able to do much, as we were out of the country at the time. : (

Kristine said...

You are truly blessed! I will continue to pray for the both of you. Prayers do work for sure. Take some time and enjoy the Phillies. They are kicking the Dodgers butt!