I don't believe in Valentine's Day.
There. I've said it.
I know it's pretty ironic if you read my last post, but that was all about my kids and wanting to make sure they kind of fit in at school. They couldn't be the ONLY one in each of their classes to NOT have cards to give out.
A few days ago I decided to spell it out to DH. "Honey," I said, "I love you and I know you love me. I don't need a bunch of overpriced flowers on Valentine's Day for you to prove it to me. We can still be lovey-dovey on that day, if you really want, but let's not really celebrate it this year."
He was fine with it, but still needed to clarify, "That means no cards either, right?"
"Absolutely. However - if you want to get me flowers any other day of the year, I'll fully support the gesture."
While I don't really think he is going to pick up on that hint (but if by chance he's reading this, please remember that you can get the best deal on flowers at Produce Junction, not pre-packaged at the grocery store) he did figure out a very romantic way for us to celebrate. Currently he is at McDonald's with all three kids feeding them Happy Meals. I am enjoying this momentary silence (ahhh) by blogging, reading other people's blogs, and of course, playing Tetris on Facebook. When he brings them home, I will get them ready for bed while he goes out to pick up Chinese food for the two of us to enjoy after the kids are in bed. He even picked out some romantic comedy for us to watch to watch together. Do I have a good guy or what?!!
3 comments:
Now THAT is a romance home run. Happy Hearts Day to you both!
Ditto. We don't' do anything special that we cannot do all year long. He did, however, take the boys out in the afternoon to give me peace and quiet since they've been home for so many effing days in a row. That's why I love him. Not because he buys me material crap I don't need.
That is definitely my kind of romance!
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